"I'll be doing some stick welding another day so what would you guys suggest for that if anything different?"
There is hope for you yet!
Once you master stick welding, you can master any other process... or so I have been told.
For starters, concentrate on the puddle. You want to keep it full and uniform as the weld progresses. You will see a spot dancing in the middle of the puddle, that is the contaminants that are being roiled out during the weld process. That roiling action is a good thing!
When you get to stick welding (SMAW):
Just like any other process, look at your equipment for a chart that gives you settings for the material thickness and electrode size.
Getting the arc started will take some practice. Some people like to "scratch" the electrode to get things started, others "tap and go."
Once you get the arc started, position the electrode above the work about the same distance as the diameter of the electrode. When you get this right, you will see small spheres surrounding the rod as it burns. As the rod burns, the heat (amperage) can change slightly, depending on the machine in use. It is not unusual to feed the last half of the rod, faster than the first.
When you get the amperage dialed in, the process will sound soupy, like bacon frying in a pan. If you have the Amperage set too low, you won't be able to keep the arc going. The weld deposits will stand tall, indicating poor penetration. If the Amperage is too high, the arc will start easily, and sound dry. As you continue welding, you will have to speed up your travel to keep from burning through the base material. The weld deposit will look flat, and "blown-out" at the finish of the weld.
In all of the time I spent ruminating on my response, this thread has taken a twist on the technical aspects of whatever process you may have used. A few posts have mentioned the puddle, one has mentioned Practice. With that in mind, I will share the basic tenets derived from a few of my mentors:
Learn how to puddle, become one with the puddle, master the puddle.
Practice! Practice! Practice!
After that, learning the next process is easy.